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What's the deal with your boss?



Hello Boss! 


Are you ready to start bossing it all the way up?

I’m very excited to start sharing all the ideas, thoughts and lessons I’ve learned throughout my years dealing with tough bosses with you! Trust me, I know how it feels to you come home every single day feeling like trash because of something your boss did or said to you. It truly sucks and it’s not something any of us should have to go through in life. So, wipe up those tears and let’s get to work!

First of all, you need to identify what the issue is with your boss and you. Does he/she make you feel unvalued? Does he/she humiliate you? Does he/she give you too much work? Does he/she mistreat you? You have to clearly identify what bothers you in your boss and in your relationship with him/her in order to start making progress.

After you’ve identified what the issue is, the next thing to do is identify what your feelings are towards your boss’ treatment. Do you feel sad? Do you feel angry? Does he/she make you want to curse him/her? Does he/she make you feel overwhelmed? Why does he make you feel like trash? You need to truly understand what your feelings are so you can work on them. The more you work through them you will see that in the future, your boss won’t bother you in the same way it used to anymore. You will be able to control and overcome those feelings.

Lastly, you have to analyze the kind of person your boss is. Try to notice how he/she treats other people around him/her: from his/her employees to his/her friends, family, clients and even business partners. Does he/she treat everyone the same? If not, what changes? If you can, do some research on his/her past. Try to understand what brought him/her to this point in life: what obstacles he/she faced, how was he/she raised, what did was/is his/her dream in life and etc. When you understand his/her past better, you are able to make sense of the things he/she does in the present.

This is your homework for the next few days. Do this research within yourself and on your boss and I’ll be back in a couple of days to talk to you about it.

Good luck!

Love,

Melissa Naves


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